
LOVE YOURSELF
&
Stand in your power as the woman you're meant to be


Welcome to Fan Your Flame Life Coaching
I'm Michelle Gay, and I help women stop feeling like victims of their inner critic and confidently live a life of their own design so they can stand in their power as the women they're meant to be!
I know this matters to you because you yearn for more...more peace, more joy, more courage...you long to feel free and want this next chapter of your life to be about you - your dreams, your desires and your ultimate happiness.
And you deserve to be happy.
Even if...
You're longing for your life to be different, but you can't put your finger on exactly what that would look like
You're plagued by self-doubt and fear, and think you can't succeed at achieving what you want
You have a history of self-sabotage despite always having the best of intentions
I can help you.
I've been where you are
As a midlife woman trapped in a middle aged body that had me hiding from any mirror or camera, and stuck in a job that no longer fulfilled me, I was living every day over and over again like "groundhog day," wondering if this was it for my life.
For years I had tried self-help books, dieting, exercising and decluttering to try and "fix" myself and my life in the pursuit of fulfillment and confidence. None of it helped me to make sustainable change or find long-term happiness. Why? Because none of these approaches went deep enough and I had no one to support me when I faltered.
My approach will show you that confidence and happiness are achievable at any age and stage of life without the need to have everything be perfect.
And the best part is you won't have to do it alone!
Life on Purpose






You, the Sequel
Embrace Your Brilliance
Ways to Work With Me
Looking for a quick way to break free from the stories you've been telling yourself about who you are? Come and learn the skills to rewrite your story to one of possibility and change. Step into a new story of you, only better!
A six month 1:1 personalized coaching program. Biweekly meetings with accountability support for women who want to achieve an intention once and for all - one where results have been beyond reach despite their best efforts.
A six month small group coaching program. Accelerated results through weekly meetings with like-minded women looking to love themselves and embody the confidence that's eluded them for so long.
Nurturing You
Group Coaching Program for Nurses on Self-Compassion
As a nurse, you are deserving of the compassion you so naturally give to others. And the best place to start is within yourself.
Nurturing You is a safe and supportive space to learn and practice the skills of awareness and self-compassion.